JD, I've unsuccessfully tried three different transmission combinations on my own, each a little further from VW stock. Finally, in a fit of logic, I went to a guy who knew a guy who used to be the guy people took their stuff to for work. I'm now working with his son (the genius I mentioned above) to return my gearbox to a semblance of new.
My advice is not to tinker with the tranny by yourself, but perhaps instead as a team. You tell the guy what you intend to use the car for, how you intend to drive it and whether or not the budget is a factor. He either dives into the books to research which gear combinations are best for you or he puts a complete unit in from another source.
That said, I'm happy to let Jim go the mix-and-match route -- but he's been doing custom work for himself and others for 25 years -- and I haven't heard of any mechanical complaints.
He told me once that the split-case VW tranny and its parts (linkage, nose cone dimensions, placement, etc.) is the most versatile VW/Porsche option available. He recommends shopping around for a shift lever you're comfortable with and machining it to the best fit for your car and so on. If you want off-the-shelf stuff, there are pages and pages of ads in the VW magazines.
Porsche stuff is probably -- IMHO -- more expensive than what most of us here really need. I'm well over $30K into my ride, with a third of that money having been spent trying things out and discovering they needed to be "fitted" or scrapped.
It adds up quickly. I'd find a VW guy close to home and ask him/her to have a look.