Bruce, since I did the Speeduino EFI on my car, I'm kinda familiar with injection. I have yet to get mine programmed for cold start. I even bought a stepper IAC from a Chrysler and installed the stepper driver on my ECU board. Mike Pickett was a MASSIVE help to me with tuning.
I don't know what model the Stinger ECU is, but ALL aftermarket ECUs I've heard of have some form of cold start enrichment along with a method of adding extra air. More likely, Outfront just doesn't deal with it as it isn't a major deal.
There are many ways to add both extra fuel before start(a couple squirts before cranking) and ASE(after start enrichment). Most are coupled to your temp sensor(in your case screwed into the head or block water jacket). Extra air can be a simple solenoid-controlled calibrated air leak, a PWM frequency valve, or an IAC(as previously mentioned).
In any case, it isn't a major hassle without it and runs slow/rough for about a minute then smooths out. After that, it drives just like any modern EFI car. Smooth and tractable, all the way. Dude, you live in California. It will take about 15-30 seconds.
As far as custom swaybars, Lenny had square ends machined on his front bar and custom arms with square holes. I think he had roll pins to keep it together.
On mine, I just Tig welded the torque arms onto my old early-911 round bar. Mine is mounted with removable brackets and split bushings. I welded a couple flat plates with nuts welded on the backside right to the beam.