Jzzzake, I wish I had a fish taco for every post on this forum that starts out,
"I love my car, BUT..."
That 'BUT' may be the most expensive word in the English language.
Reasonable people stop at 'I love my car' and drive their Speedsters just the way they are. There are a few sensible, well-adjusted folks here who have done just that and they appear to be quite happy. But not many.
Most of us are a little funny. We appear normal at first, but after a while you'll figure out we are at least a little delusional. We have spent untold fortunes on all manner of stuff to 'improve' our cars, thinking just this one more thing will finally make our dreams come true. And it makes us doubt our wisdom less if we can convince someone else to do the same.
The sad truth is the VW engine and gearing were never really designed for today's highway speeds and traffic conditions. There is a whole lot you can do to keep up with traffic better, climb hills better, and run quieter on the interstate. But almost none of that is cheap or makes good business sense to rational people.
Welcome to the madness.