@Lfepardo- Scott's 2000 Tacoma is converted from 2w to 4wd with an older Toyota straight front axle and leaf springs (it is the definition of a 4wd riding like a tank!) and I'm pretty sure the guys who built it used dot3. To be honest, I don't think it matters which brake fluid is in it. The 2012 SI Civic came with dot4 (I think- a short look online was inconclusive) so putting dot3 in it, while not quite right, isn't a major faux pas (it hasn't messed anything up). When I can talk him into bleeding the brakes again (it's probably about due for it's 2 year fluid change any way- we did front and rear brakes in it a couple? years ago) we'll use dot4.
From what I've read, a lot of new cars (starting in 2006) came with dot4. I haven't seen anything about new cars with dot5 from the factory, but haven't investigated any of the higher end brands (Porsche, BMW, Mercedes Benz...).
@Stan Galat- I never read anything about dot4 being more hygroscopic than dot3 (mind you, again, I didn't delve that deeply into it), so interesting info. I've always believed brake fluid turns dark when it absorbs water (I don't know where I got that from) so as long as the container stayed tightly sealed I've trusted what came out of the old container on the shelf. I do like your idea of always buying the smallest amount needed...