For Chrissakes, David, get yourself a 3/4" drive breaker bar and the right 3/4" socket to go with. Do they sell Craftsman tools up there in the Great White North? Eh? It's been years, but the only way I ever made one of those nuts budge was to use the larger breaker-bar and the long cheater pipe with me standing on the far end. Not sure I ever went to seven feet, but maybe. I never tore into a torsion bar, so can't help there. Follow the experts advice on that front.
When I look at all the stuff you have managed with your car, and all you have planned, I'd say you are a very patient man indeed. But nobody likes to spend a week getting a job done that should take five minutes.
PS: What did that bugger look like once off? All rusty and stuff, or was it just on there tighter than a nun's . . .
PPS: I'd like to hear the experts' opinions here, but my advice for reassembly would be to clean up the threads on both sides, obviously, and then apply some never seize thread compound -- brush it on sparingly w/ an old tooth brush. A little dab 'ill do ya. Can be applied sparingly to the face of the nut too, where it bears on the flange. Might save another three days again sometime. Just sayin' I believe it is OK to have a little lube within the threads as it is not the friction of the threads that keeps things together so much as the deflection energy stored in the metal (nut and stud both) when you achieve the correct torque. That and the cotter pin too. The never seize will inhibit rust also.
And: you can use the shade-tree mechanics torque wrench here to get it snugged up proper: weigh yourself (this is the hardest part), take the correct torque value in ft-lb, divide that by your weight (in pounds), and go stand on the cheater bar that distance (in feet) from the center of the axle. Or, if you happen to have a big mother torque wrench, use that. And post pictures.