guys,,GUYS !! Your thinking "simple", and "cheap", while I'm thinking "complicated" and "expensive"...What's the problem here!! Here's what I did using the parts I had, and it works as described;
Parts - two flasher switches, one single throw toggle switch, one VW turn sig. switch, two relays
Flasher one gets switched power from the fuse block, aux. circuits. It's output goes directly to the turn signal supply, and through the switch to either left or right lights.
Flasher two gets unswitched power from the battery, and supplies the toggle switch. The toggle output then branches to each relay, one left one right, both supply power and switch terminals. The relay output then gets spliced into the lights on each side of the car.
The relays are actually the isolating mechanism, so to Brian's comment, properly sized diodes would work fine here, but are MUCH too cheap, small, and simple.
Now, operation is like a production car; E-flashers without the key or turn signal switch, and signals only when the key is in aux, or ign. position. Eureka! All I have to do is replace the flasher I smoked when I hooked the ground to the wrong terminal...duh
Actually, two driving forces are at work. ONE; explaining how to operate the E-flashers to my wife, and TWO; I already had bought the parts or had them lying around.
-Tim
BTW; I wouldn't get within 100-yards of this finished product if it were an airplane :0