Congratulations, Steve, and welcome to the Madness!
I find it's always a center of attention whenever I go for gas and it always takes longer to get out of there than you'd expect.
Your questions:
"What rpm do most of you rev to in 1st ,2nd, and 3rd gear before an upshift?"
It might depend on how much performance your engine has, but I usually shift between 3,000 and 4,000 around town. If your exhaust is loud you can, of course, keep it a bit lower to maintain peace with the neighbors. If you're surprising a Mustang, then 5,500 and up is fair game.
"What is the lowest rpm do you maintain while driving?"
Again, it depends on your engine, what it's cam spec is like, carburetion, a bunch of stuff. I tend to rev a bit higher around town than some, and with my old transaxle (4:12 R&P) never went below 2,500. However! Now have a 3:88 R&P which makes it a bit quicker around town in each gear so I've lowered my "lug line" to around 2,000 and go light on the foot down there. My cam will handle it fine....I just don't like making it work that much.
Gordon
The Speedstah Guy from Massachusetts