According to one of my Suby friends, at least on the Impreza up to around 2007 or so, there is a relay which energizes a "Fuel Controller", which sends a series of pulses to the pump in the tank, the pulses varying in frequency depending on engine fuel need (more throttle, more pulses).
The "controller" is usually within three feet of the fuel pump in the tank, while the fuel pump relay which drives it is in the front passenger footwell above the kickpanel. It has a greenish 4-pin connector.
Remember that Lawing used the original Subaru wiring harness without mods, so things should be physically close to where they were in the Impreza.
Fuses for the pump circuit are: SBF-5 and fuse 11 supply power to the relay
I don't know the year of your donor car, but fuse maps are out on the web once you know the year. You might try calling Steve Lawing at SAS and ask him where the relay and controller might be.
So, once you find the correct fuse, pull the fuse in and out and listen/feel for the relay clicking and THAT is the one. Just remember that the relay may be fine, but the controller is going south, instead.
Relay photos in the Impreza footwell - look for the green connector:
http://www.bescaredracing.com/sti/fu...l/DSC05668.JPG
http://www.bescaredracing.com/sti/fu...l/DSC05669.JPG