SF, it's all in how you approach your girl.
I first tried sitting-legs out, getting my long (I'm 6' 2") right leg in (think watusi), then grabbing my left leg and forcing in in a very unnatural way, into the car. This method looked and felt awkward and resulted in Advil dependency.
Now I simply swing open the door, right hand goes to the top of the seat-back, and I jump in, both feet first, then sit, hopefully on the seat, too much momentum and the gearshift knob goes places nothing should ever go.
My Flat Four banjo (wiggly little thing that it is) fits me fine.
Ask Teby how he likes his (real) VDM wheel...