Almost forgot: The copper exhaust gaskets are slotted where the bolts are, so you can put the whole thing together and then slide the gaskets on.
But they aren't from CB(oops!). Also brass nuts available here:
http://www.mtmfg.com/part/view...-replaceme?part=3388
You should be able to get your exhaust within about 1/16" of the heads(including the gaskets). A slight compression pf the exhaust to reach the heads is permissible, but too much and the exhaust will leak, it's a fine line.
I use the steel nuts on the intake, they work well there, but brass or copper on exhaust are a VERY smart move. Same set of brass nuts and I've pulled the engine 3 times, and just the exhaust a couple times more.
Cheers