All of your valve geometry was fine before all this started.
#4 cylinder was never a constant issue before this time.
All that was changed was the ignition, now one plug doesn't seem to be firing.
Kinda makes one suspect either a plug or plug wire, doesn't it?
The only way to check for a bent pushrod is to completely remove the rocker assembly, pull out the pushrods (one-by-one because each one should go back into precisely the same hole AND the same end facing out as before you pulled it) and roll them on a sheet of glass or other reasonably flat surface to see if they bind, indicating a bent rod. Then, if you find one, you'll have to get it measured by an automotive machine shop so you can order a new one (at premium price, because people almost never by just ONE).
Are you prepared to do all that to find that they're OK?
Before you go to a whole lot of trouble, please try something simple that Kelly recommended (and really good advice it was):
Remove SparkPlug #4.
Re-attach it to the #4 plug wire.
Using a pair of insulated pliers, hold the plug base to the engine case to ground it.
Have someone turn over the engine to see if there is an actual spark at the electrode.
Don't run it long - it's gonna run really weirdly with one plug out - won't hurt anything, but it's gonna sound like hell to you.
That's pretty easy to do, then let us know what'cha find.......