You're right; some have it and some don't, and it sounds like your daughter has it. She must be pretty good.
You know Danny, guys who work on their cars and have a good idea how all the parts fit together and work usually have a better feel of how the car is running, compared to the people that just jump in it, drive, and leave the maintenance to someone else. I have also known guys that did a fair bit of their own work and really couldn't tell when things changed, and met guys that left almost all work to a shop and were very in tune with how it was running. To quote the late Bob Hoover; "Listen to what the engine has to say. It won't take your money and it is incapable of lying. All you have to do is learn to speak it's language". Sometimes all it takes is noticing a slight change of pitch; you look down and the engine is laboring just a bit more, and the oil (and maybe the head temp as well if you've got the gauge) is getting a little hot. Back off a couple hundred rpm's and the temp stays at a more manageable level. Or you get in the car, start it up and notice a little more valve clatter than usual; an inspection finds a couple of rocker side shims wearing, a pushrod tip pounding in more than the others or a broken adjuster...
One thing I really enjoy here is reading about people (who formerly though they were "non-mechanical") starting to do their own maintenance. It starts with an oil change, progresses to adjusting valves, and a while later they're cleaning idle jets and adjusting their dual carbs. If more guys did their own work we probably wouldn't see so many low mileage cars for sale, where guys found the reality of aircooled Speedster ownership (spending way more time at the mechanic's than a newer car) wasn't quite the same as the dream- roaring around with the top down, wind in the hair (or across the scalp for some of us), any time the mood (or weather) beckoned.
Have you read the book "Zen And The Art Of Motorcycle Maintenance"? As a much younger man I found it a little weird, but stuck with it to the end. I could be about a trip across the country in a Speedster powered by a high performance VW...
And now I've been rambling waay too long. Al
PS- a couple of things: the Bob Hoover bit is my "quote of the day". And you made a very good point ealier- "6500 is a good figure". With proper maintenance (and a good ear, which obviously you must have) a motor with that powerband can last many, many miles (and yes, you are a great example). Power to 7500 would be more fun, but would take way more work to keep on the road, it's not a cross state or country driver and it not going to last nearly as long...