Dave..
"what is it that you do not like about silicone? What causes you problems? I have a feeling this is a time and sunshine issue?"
The deal is that when a 80 story bldg. is erected, do you think that the developer would want to pay for leak failure on a window at the 65th floor a year after the bldg. is occupied? Sound costly? DOH!
This is why architects always specify polyurethane caulk at all weather critical connections. Glazers, iron workers, roofers, etc would NEVER EVER use silicone.
"Silicone" was the GE patented name for a NASA product that has great heat resistance characteristics. It CAN NOT withstand the force of the sun's powerful UV rays or the expansion and contractions between different materials. Also, paint will not adhere to it.
While it sells very well at the "big box" stores, over time if exposed to the elements, it will fail.
This means that if you keep your car in the garage and don't drive it too often.... it will perform to that standard pretty well, I guess.
Cheers, Ernie