Us fellow members of the AARP can make exceptions for you'se with Early Onset
Alzhiemer's, ya know.......
I used Locktite 510 Flange Sealant, as recommended by Jake. Quite pricey stuff, but it works, as long as you polish at least the manifold flange to absolutely flat so that the gap is minimized and the sealant can do it's job. For that I used 600-1,200 grit sandpapers flat on a piece of glass and carefully sanded the manifold flange until there was no waviness or distortions in the reflected light - then I felt it was flat. I also looked at the head surface but there were no significant marks from the milling tool when the flange surfaces were machined so I opted to take the chance that they were OK.
BTW: I did this because after my heads were ported, the port openings were egg-shaped and the metal between them was less than 1/8" so it kept sucking the gasket out in that small space. The answer was to eliminate the gasket, polish the flange surface flat and run the locktite flange sealant. I brushed the sealant on for a very thin film and put everything together using 11mm (wrench size) nuts with flat and lockwashers. Those have been OK for several years, now. Don't know if I'll have to use Dynamite if I ever want to get them apart.........