Bob, I went with this muffler because it was on hand already.
I couldn't tell you what the part number is, since it was already hackneyed when I pulled it out of the used parts bin, but I can tell you that the length and height are about 7" each, and it's about 3" thick.
The header is scratch-built of new pipes and old exhaust pieces, with composite-made flanges of hollow tubing welded to 1/4" wall-thickness pipe shaped to the oval ports in my heads.
The muffler is very loud, about 105 db under moderate load (3000 - 32000 rpm) and you need hearing protection to drive it like you stole it.
Think Harley-Davidson.
I hit my power band at about 3,800 rpm. I usually drive in the 3,600 - 4,300 rpm range. There are two features to the exhaust that I countered the flow problem with; one is a cone inserted into the 3" pipe as a mute (like a trumpet's) to quiet it down a little. The other is the plate inside the muffler. It's 3/16" thick, and chevron-shaped, with the point of the chevron toward the inlet side.
I'm not happy with it, but it's what I've got for now.
In addition to Jim's suggestion of a Borla (sp?) muffler, you might look at Bursch or Ansa.
Whatever you come up with, assuming you're still looking around, let me know, please. I'm still looking at installing a 2.0 '69 911E -- if I don't decide to build a Spyder first.
Does that help?