The easy, I-don't-have-all-the-tools-I-need-like-a-BIG-torque-wrench method:
Put the wheel back on, tighten the lug nuts/bolts and lower that end of the car to the floor.
Remove the cotter pin from the hub castle nut.
Attach your 36mm socket to a 18" - 24" breaker bar (you'll need a 6" extension for this).
Set the emergency brake to "wicked hahd" (hope you guys get a Bah-Sten announcer for the Stanley Cup games up theah).
Slide a 5' - 6' piece of steel pipe over the bat handle of the breaker bar to loosen the nut. Apply pressure at the far end of the pipe (Lefty-Loosey) and the nut should loosen right up.
You may now jack it back up and remove the wheel to get your little collar on.
To replace the nut: replace the wheel, let it down to the floor.
Go weigh yourself.
Calculate where on the pipe you should be pushing for 250+ pounds of torque.
If you weigh 250 (jus' sayin'...) and were to stand (one foot) on the breaker bar or pipe 12" out from the hub, you would exert 250 foot pounds. I weigh 157 so I usually stand (one foot) somewhere around 18" - 24" out from the hub. If it makes you feel better about it being tight, gently bounce once or twice - NO MORE. Anything from 250 to 300 foot pounds is fine and it's ok to be towards 300 when done.
BTW: I have a removal bar made from a 4' Long X 2" Wide X 1/4" thick piece of flat steel bar from Home Depot. It has holes drilled to fit one end onto either two studs of a wheel hub (wheel removed) or a couple of flywheel pressure plate bolts. Once on, I can use it as a lever to hold the flywheel or hub in place while loosening or tightening it. I can take a photo if you want to see what it looks like.
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